Discoverability maybe an issue. But, local timelines, on instances that are dedicated to specific topics help.
https://instances.social to find those instances.
And there is work on a user directory as well https://mastodon.social/@Gargron/101192194776647834
That's the cool thing about open source software, it's always getting better, and any one can help.
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